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About Body Talk Jewelry
I created Body Talk Jewelry to tell a story and start a conversation.
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I've lived in chronic pain since I was 12 years old. When I was 19 I had my 1st major surgery to help with severe pain. The docs urgently removed 3 benign ovarian tumors. I lost 1/2 my ovary that day & gained a 4 inch scar. But I was still in pain.
When I was 29, I had almost the same surgery again - 3 more tumors removed. This time I got a 6 inch scar.
But the pain never went away - it actually got worse over the years.
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I continued to suffer for years. Medical professionals dismissed my pain time and time again. I was put on more hormonal treatments and birth controls than I count - each with it's own set of debilitating side effects. It was during this time without a diagnosis that I found an online support group for people with endometriosis. I received more information from my online chronically ill community than I ever did from my multiple medical professionals.
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At 33, I finally found a doctor who believed my pain and was an expert in endometriosis. I underwent a diagnostic surgery, where my surgeon found that it had severely damaged my uterus, ovaries, bladder & cervix. I received my diagnosis that day along with a complete hysterectomy. This resulted in surgical menopause, which was debilitating in and of itself. Menopause at such a young age triggered debilitating symptoms & a hormonal migraine disorder, forcing me to stop working. I also had to relearn how to use my pelvic muscles through months of Pelvic Floor Therapy, which finally restored my bodily functions without pain.
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My illness has touched everything in my life, especially my sense of self. I've had to figure out who I am while living in pain & fear, also while dealing with constant changes in my body.
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While I try my best to survive it all, along the way I have struggled to figure out my identity, my body, how to survive pain & how to use my voice.​
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For a long time I viewed my body as an obstacle to my ability to live fully. I pretended my illness & scars did not exist. I denied my reality & tried to separate it from my relationships, my work, my identity. In doing so, I silenced my own story.
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Until one day I realized I deserved better. I went to therapy & finally learned how to love myself because of who I am & what I've been through - not despite of it. I began telling my story and was quickly embraced by an entire community of people eager to discuss what it means to live with illness.
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​It took years and the love of other disabled folks to understand that my body, with all of its experiences, is a symbol of survival. I began to wonder how many more people could be helped if conversations about our bodies became more commonplace.
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I made Body Talk Jewelry to tell my story and get people talking about what it means to live in changing, chronically ill bodies.
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I hope my Body Talk Jewelry serve as a reminder to my customers of a few things my body has taught me:
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Be grateful for your beautiful body. It's doing it's best, just like you.
You, even at your most vulnerable, are deserving of love.
Speak your story, even when your voice shakes & breaks.
Love yourself, scars & all.
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